There are a lot of bullshit guides on the internet or in mens magazines on how to fuck a woman. Most of them are written by lame married journalists with no sexual experience. I’m good in bed and have banged my way into triple digits so I put this no-bullshit guide together to show you guys what’s worked for me, enjoy:
No food 3 hours before, this will drastically increase your stamina and performance
Lube/condom/toys/baby wipes within close reach, ideally nightstand
Day Time/early evening sex as you’ll have more energy in general
Avoid caffeine, it’s a vasoconstrictor and a stimulant, you want your nervous system to be relaxed for good sex
At least 10 minutes of foreplay is ideal
Kissing, stroking, rubbing her through her clothes, you can always rip her clothes off but usually it’s better to tease her with anticipation first, you want that pussy to be dripping by the time you touch it.
Tune in to the subtle ways she kisses/touches you and mimic her movements back to her to create a seamless rhythm and put yourself and her into a trance
Lots of intense kissing, eye contact, basically the opposite of porn star sex
Bedroom eyes while kissing and fucking her, make her look you in the eyes in missionary, it puts her in a trance
She’s fucking the image of you as a man, remember that so present a dominant, intense passionate man
Start slow to pace yourself, tease her, allow her to get really wet, allow both of you to develop a rhythm
Don’t just jam your cock into her, tease her with it, make her earn it, give her shallow strokes at first before you give her the whole thing, remember you’re fucking her mind first, her body second.
Try and maintain a steady rhythm at all times, this is very important, don’t switch positions every couple minutes like in porn, work on developing that steady stroke
Think about when a girl is giving you head, you don’t want her rhythm to be all over the place and she doesn’t want that from you either
Adjust your speed based on how she responds and what feels good for you, but try to stay at each rhythm change, either slow/medium/fast, for at least a few minutes before you change-up the speed
You can increase or decrease the speed but save the ultra fast pace for when she or you are getting close to cumming
Standing Doggy Style
Keeping her legs together works better for standing doggy style
Make sure she keeps her back arched so you can get in at a good angle, and get her to bend her knees if she’s too tall
It’s good to throw her against the wall to add some dominance or in front of the mirror
For extra dominance: pull her hair, spank her ass, get her to rub her clit
Kneeling Doggy Style
For small girls you can keep their legs together but for average sized to taller girls it’s better to be between their legs as her pussy will be too high otherwise
You can keep her legs together and go up on your feet in squat position and fuck her but this will wear your legs out in about two minutes
Another option is to keep her legs together but get her to rest her thighs on her calves so her pussy is at a good height
Missionary is my favorite position because it gives you maximum mental dominance by letting you stare into her soul when you fuck her
The look you want is piercing and powerful
Show her complete dominance, kiss and you’ll both fall into a trance
Prop yourself up on your elbows and cup her face/head for a more romantic vibe
Wrap your arms around her tight, bring her in close and put your weight on her to make her feel completely enveloped in you
Grab her ass and push it against your cock so you get deeper inside, with the option of rubbing/fingering her asshole
In medium missionary you have her legs lifted at a medium level, between high and flat on the bed
Go deep and aim your cock up to hit her A spot just above her cervix, you will need your whole cock for this, the A spot is also known as the anterior fornix
Drop her right leg a bit lower and have her rub her clit in this position, this brings more girls to orgasm than any position I know
In high missionary, lift her legs high and prop yourself up on your hands or fists, think about high plank in yoga
Aim your cock up to hit her g spot, you will only need about half your cock inside her to do this, the lower half of your cock should be rubbing against the lower lip of her pussy with your whole body moving as one
Watch as the girl stares entranced at your cock going inside her, girls love watching your cock fuck her
You can also lift your self onto the balls of your feet and use them to push off so you can add some extra force to your strokes
A variation of this is to arch your lower back as you’re pulling out then finishing each stroke with a powerful whip of your hips to really pound her deep
Girl On Top On Couch
You’ll want to be sitting straight up with your legs together while she straddles you
Control the tempo by moving her ass up and down or back and forth
Make sure to keep your dick angled towards her G spot, this position is very good for making girls orgasm and I like it a lot more than traditional girl on top because it’s more of an equal power dynamic
Girl Lying On Her Stomach
Keep her legs together with you straddling her either propped up on your hands or with your elbows or arms wrapped around her
This is another position girls really seem to love because it combines the angle of doggy style with the closeness of missionary
Girls always love the doggy style angle because that’s the position we’re designed to fuck in like every other animal in the kingdom
Additional option: rub her clit yourself, this is a very powerful tool in this position
Use the stationary Bike for high intensity training
If you feel like you’re getting close to cumming, slow down, focus on a point on the wall and take deep breaths in and out of your mouth
If that technique isn’t working you can go down and eat her pussy for a few minutes
Debrief her on how she orgasms after sex but don’t make a big deal if you can’t fuck her to an orgasm
If you can’t make her cum with your cock aim to make her cum with your mouth or fingers
Sex With A New Girl
Avoid couch sex for the first time, the bed will be your best performance
First time sex is always exciting so aim to last 10 minutes or more, even for seasoned vets like me my dick sometimes needs a cooldown period with a new hot girl, that means going slow even when she wants it faster
Don’t get too fancy the first time, the key is good foreplay, passion and adjusting to each other’s style
Debrief her after first time sex about what makes her cum and use that on her in the future
Debrief on what she fantasizes about but hasn’t done and use it on her in the future
All girls like dirty talk, the only question is the amount and the extent
Baby step with dirty talk, don’t expect much back from them except “ya”
Low self-esteem girls will like being called a slut and a whore and so will some high self-esteem girls, it’s all play and fantasy and not how you think of her
Initiate rough sex in baby steps, hair pulling, ass spanking, biting, if she enjoys it you can increase the aggressiveness
Be dominant, no girl wants to take control in the bedroom, you only see that in porn movies, in real life a girl wants to be ravished by a dominant man
Sex with a condom will never be your best performance because you lose half of your precision
Girls will bleed/spot about 1/10 times you have sex
The more girls you have the more sexual confidence you get and the more relaxed you are
1/3 of girls can’t cum without clitoral stimulation
Some girls can’t cum with a guy at all
Some girls cum/multiple orgasm very easily
Find yourself getting sexually attracted to a great girl? Use these ten steps on how to get a girl to have sex with you to arouse her and seduce her. By Jake Francis
Getting to have sex with a girl you desire is a dream come true.
You may want to date her or you may find her extremely sexually attractive.
Firstly, the nicest way to get to have sex with a girl is to date her and take things forward with that.
You’ll fall in love with a great girl and you’ll have fun in every step of the way.
Neither can you make a move to have sex with her unless she approves your moves with reciprocation.
Get these ten moves right, and she’ll be more than happy to have sex with you!
#1 Let her see your great side. If you want to have sex with a girl, you definitely have to be good enough to get her attention. If she thinks you’re desirable and everything she wants in a great guy, half your work’s cut out for you already. [Read: 10 things women want in a perfect man]
#2 Let her know you’re interested in her. Talk to her, spend time with her, and let her catch you staring at her discreetly now and then. Make her wonder if you’re interested in her without revealing too much.
If you ask her out without making her like you first, she’ll lose the excitement of the mysterious relationship. Make her wonder what’s on your mind and you’ll make her fall in love with you without even asking her out. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]
#3 Get out of the friend zone. Unless you’re dating her already, the friend zone is a scary place to be. Friends don’t have sex with each other and they avoid getting sexually attracted to each other. Be her friend, but don’t be just another friend who’s got no sexual interest in her. Make it clear that you find her attractive and sexy.
#4 Spend more time with her. If you want to have sex with a girl, the only time you can work your magic is by getting some alone time with her. You need to flirt sexually and make her feel comfortable to be with you. But you can’t do that when there are other friends around.
Behave normally when there are other friends with her, but the second they walk away, say something like, “whew… now I get to spend some alone time with this sexy girl…” or something else that makes it clear that you find her attractive in a more-than-just-friends kind of way. [Read: 10 safe and flirty ways to build the sexual tension with a girl]
#5 Go out with her. You don’t have to fix a date to take her out. Grab lunch together at work or help her run an errand now and then. By doing that, you’re already taking the place of her boyfriend in her mind. [Read: How to attract a girl who has a boyfriend]
But always remember to keep the sexual excitement on a high. Or she’d just look at you as a friend.
#6 Touch her. And excite her. The touch is a very powerful way to send the right signals across without seeming desperate. Look for ways to touch her arm or clasp her hand at the opportune moment. The more you touch her delicately and sensually, the more sexually turned on she’d get. [Read: Tips to touch a girl when you’re out with her]
#7 Invite her to your place. Invite her to your pad, or get invited back to her place. You’ve built the sexual tension already. She knows you’re not just a friend, and she definitely knows you’re attracted to her already. By getting comfortable in each other’s places, it’s taking you one step closer to her bedroom and into her pants. After all, if you’re going to get a girl to have sex with you soon, you need to make her feel comfortable with you in each other’s private spaces.
#8 Give her a few sneak peeks. So she thinks you’re a nice guy who’s attracted to her. But that’s really not enough. You need to arouse her and force her to take little glances at your sexy side.
Look away from her and stretch casually when you have a hard on inside your jeans. Let her catch a sneak peek of your obliques and your rather low trousers when you’re changing your shirt at your place. Always look away when you’re flaunting your body to her. It gives her enough time to admire you sexually without the fear of getting caught. These moves will involuntarily make her get sexually attracted to you and desire you. [Read: A guy’s real life public flashing confession]
#9 Watch a movie together. Go out on a date or stay back at home and watch a movie. A movie involves a few hours of quiet time where both of you sit really close to each other. This is where you can touch her ever so slightly with your arm or your foot. Do it the right way and be patient, the chemistry can be electrifying. If you want to seduce a girl, absentmindedly graze your arm against hers with the slightest of touches while sitting next to her. It’ll turn her on before you know it! [Read: The art of flirting by touch]
#10 Arouse her the right way. If you want to know how to get a girl to have sex with you, you really need to remember that all the focus is on sexually exciting her and arousing her into making out with you. Never seem pushy, instead play it safe and slow instead of going too fast.
These ten tips on how to get a girl to have sex with you can help you do more than just kiss the girl you like or touch her breasts. There’s just one thing left to do now, read how to arouse a girl and make her kiss you to know the finer details of the next delicate move.
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